Rules of being a lady

 

1. Walk like a feather, dance like the weather.

Have you ever noticed a feather falling down on the grown?!

So delicate, smooth, though strong.

Walk with grace, walk with confidence, walk with faith.

Dance barefoot, dance in the muddy waters of tears, dance in this ocean called life.

Don’t fight against it, learn how to surf!

2. Be that shoulder to cry on.

Who doesn’t recall how easy all the darkness disappeared when surrounded by mom’s tender arms?

Give a chance to people who never felt it, and be there for the needed ones.

3. Be real, be bold, be… YOU!

Be that woman who at the end of the day, doesn’t have to take out her mask.

Be that woman who at the end of the day, doesn’t have to cry out loud her misery of living others people life.

Be that woman who at the end of the day, embraces her reflection in the mirror.

4. Smile on top of those tears, knowing that tomorrow life will give you hundreds of reasons to wipe them out.

 And what if you cry? And what if you lose? And what if you make mistakes?

Cry, laugh, dance on them and… let go!

5. Start loving… YOU! Don’t you know confidence is the new must have?

Grab that mirror, take a look at yourself and, start seeing who you really are.

You are a particle of God’s creation. What is not to love about you?!

6. Grow… love.

Love yourself, love others, love nature, love who you are, what you are, what you’ll become, what you feel, what you need, what you deserve.

7. Give!

By helping others, you help your heart.

The fulfillment of knowing that you could ease the pain from one’s life is infinite.

Take the time to feel it!

8. Read.

Appearance is important, but let’s decorate the room of cultural, emotional, spiritual development.

We wouldn’t like spider nests to invade us, right?

9. Keep your mouth shut, and your heart open. 

And by this, I don’t mean that you should stop expressing yourself, your opinion and start to live in the shadow.

Oh, Hell, no!

A lady should always stand up, rise, shine, but make it with style and love, girl!

Respect who you are. Respect who and what others are.

We are not better than others. We are all just… human.

10. Stand out and keep up!

You are unique, no matter what.

You don’t need to look, speak, dress like the ones around you.

Just show who you really are and… allow yourself to shine!

Once you do it, keep on sprinkling glitter on your life!

Moment by moment, day by day, turn yourself into a “disco ball”(literally speaking 😉 )

Little sparkle here and there killed no one.

11. Keep your mind open.

What doesn’t call for elegance if not a lady who can respect others without insulting, shouting, judging, while still holding on her opinion?

12. Blink like you feel lazy.

Is nothing elegant about those eyelashes moving up and down like in a marathon race.

Take it easy, girl! 😉

13. Breathe!

This moment is yours, life is yours, so breathe into it!

The key to success is in your possession, so, why freak out?

Just… work on it!

 14. Be sure to spread around you a subtle fragrance of grace, elegance, discretion. 

Be a lady, not the tramp!

15. Know your fears, weaknesses. 

Face them, embrace them, allow them to create a better version of a unique human being.

Boogie man comes only if we open the door.

If you have it as a Heartmate though, make some space for Tinkerbell as well.

She would love to bring in some light and create a cozy home out of darkness.

16. Don’t run away from hotness.

Elegance is sexy, as long as sexy is elegance!

17. Keep your standards high, and your morals even higher.

For sure you know what to expect from yourself, from life.

Don’t settle down for a so so version of you. Invest in what you were, are and want to become.

Invest, create, fight!

Life is not always easy, people and situations are not always fair.

They might make you suffer, try to break you down, but, my dear one, don’t give up on that priceless dignity!

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Brainify your spirit, simplify your choices, glitterize your life!

What about you, girl?! What is your way of… being?!

© 2017 Dr. Alina- Loredana Marcu. All rights reserved.

 

71 Comments Add yours

  1. jossynana says:

    beautiful

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    1. breakthefog says:

      Thank you, my dear jossynana. What are the rules which guide you on the path of living like a lady?

      Liked by 1 person

      1. jossynana says:

        i will write an article about that and send it to you personally

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      2. breakthefog says:

        I can’t wait to read it 🙂

        Like

  2. Marina Rosie says:

    This was an absolutely wonderful read! You made me laugh but at the same time, I agree with everything you’ve said! xx
    Marina x

    Liked by 1 person

    1. breakthefog says:

      Thank you, dear Marina.
      What are the most important lady- like rules for you?

      Like

  3. lovejanera says:

    My rule of being a lady is I don’t trust quickly to anyone. Thats my first rule. You have a great article. Very informative. Keep inspiring.

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    1. breakthefog says:

      A good rule when it comes to protecting yourself.
      Keep on shining, lady!

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  4. Fantastic rules. I especially liked #17

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    1. breakthefog says:

      Thank you, dear.
      From my point of view, a woman will be nothing else than a bunch of meat without dignity and moral principles.

      Like

  5. This is Kat. says:

    Haha this is brilliant, very true with some added humour!

    Liked by 1 person

    1. breakthefog says:

      Thank you, Kat!
      Shine on, lady!!!

      Liked by 1 person

  6. Jassy says:

    Really beautiful post! ☺️

    Liked by 1 person

    1. breakthefog says:

      Glad you’ve liked it. Rule this world, lady!

      Like

  7. Anna Harris says:

    Hey, Alina! You made me smile! So thanks 🙂 My take away is…blink s-l-o-w-l-y. Love it! Thanks for sharing some sparkle!

    Liked by 1 person

    1. breakthefog says:

      Thank you for your appreciation.
      Go out there and shine, lady!!!

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  8. yaswtanu says:

    Great read and very inspiring indeed !! 👍

    Liked by 1 person

    1. breakthefog says:

      Thank you for your appreciation.
      Have a shining day!

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  9. Great Post. Absolutely love and agree with the point about knowing and embracing our fears.

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    1. breakthefog says:

      Thank you, my dear lady!
      Let’s embrace who and what we truly are!

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  10. I love this post! I can relate to most of these, although most of the time I am no where near graceful, haha. I try to be there for anyone who needs an ear to listen or a little advice. It is hard enough being a woman in this world, we all need to stick together.

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    1. breakthefog says:

      I couldn’t say it better: we need to stick together!
      Only in this way we can create a better, brigther world!
      Let’s hold one to each other, lady!!! We can do it!!!

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  11. This is Kat. says:

    This was a great read. Very funny but also very true, you make some good points! It is hard to be a woman in our society, but us girls stick together!

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    1. breakthefog says:

      Stick together, rise and shine!!!
      We are beautiful human beings, no matter how many tears are hidden under that gorgeous smile.
      As long as we have each other, nothing is hard enough!

      Liked by 1 person

      1. breakthefog says:

        Let’s rule this life, girl!

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  12. Bee Lovewell says:

    Not a single rule I disagree with. A beautiful post.

    Liked by 1 person

    1. breakthefog says:

      I am so glad you like it. Rule this world, lady!

      Like

  13. Krista Aoki says:

    I love these uplifting rules. But the one that really, really made me smile: Don’t run away from hotness.

    It’s true! Sometimes ladies are so ashamed of their beauty, when in this culture I think they shouldn’t be. It’s all part of female empowerment.

    ANYWAY great read! ❤

    xoxo,
    Krista
    http://reroutelifestyle.com

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    1. breakthefog says:

      Dear Krista, definitely we should never hide our beauty. We are beautiful on the outside, but our inner beauty is the one which should shine more than anything.
      As I said, hotness can be classy as long as we know how to keep our feminine side on tracks of elegance, style, subtility.
      Let’s rock this world, lady!
      Bless you!

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  14. Kathy says:

    Beautifully said! Thanks for sharing!

    Liked by 1 person

    1. breakthefog says:

      It is a pleasure to share my thought with you, my dear ladies!

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  15. My life, my rule. I don’t let anyone tells me what to do, its my life and it’s my rules only. This is the reason why we left a high paying job, to have freedom.

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    1. breakthefog says:

      Tottaly agree with you, dear Crisly.
      There is a reason why it is called our life. We own it, and we are the only one entitled to make it as we want.
      Love, laugh, cry, enjoy… live as we feel like!!!

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  16. Beautiful and uplifting read! “Don’t settle for a so so version of yourself”, loved that quote!

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    1. breakthefog says:

      Never settle, keep growing up, shining, loving, living!
      Life is about learning everyday who you are and worship this!
      Life is about us!

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  17. Sophia Whitham says:

    Beautifully written, this made me hold my head a little higher on the bus this morning x

    Sophia x

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    1. breakthefog says:

      My dear Sophia, we should never stop holding our heads up high.
      Humpback is not for us! Shine bright though, it is!!!
      I send you hugs, positivity, and blessings!

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  18. Absolutely love this. You have mentioned everything that a lady should have. Women are the best in everything and stronger than men. Respect. Loved reading it and will show it to my sister and mom as well. 🙂

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    1. breakthefog says:

      It is so nice hearing this from you… Thank you for your opinion, and honest appreciation.
      This is really uplifting and I am more than happy that you will show this to your family.
      It is important to spread grace and feminity throughout the world.
      Have a wonderful day!

      Like

  19. Abhilash PS says:

    Amazing tips for a women to follow!!!

    Liked by 1 person

    1. breakthefog says:

      Thank you for your appreciation!!!

      Like

  20. I don’t think there are any rules that make you a lady as each person is completely different.
    Alicia x
    http://www.aestheticobsessed.co.uk

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    1. breakthefog says:

      Definitely, dear Alicia. Every person is unique, gorgeous in his/her own way.
      I never tried to influence someone to think or behave like me. These rules are the ones which are part of my own personality, as we create our own rules.
      I would love to know what is your main rule or target when it comes to… being a lady?
      I send you hugs, kisses and love!

      Like

  21. helenevlacho says:

    So beautiful reading! Great tips for ladies (some of them could be good for men as well)

    Liked by 1 person

    1. breakthefog says:

      🙂 Thank you so much, dear Helen.
      The world is ours, men or women, young or old, and we should rule it! Let’s rock our existence!

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  22. Loved your article! These tips will inspire all the ladies who come across this blogpost. Thanks for sharing with us

    Liked by 1 person

    1. breakthefog says:

      You’re welcome, lady! Let’s create a graceful world!!!

      Like

  23. Inspiration on a page! Well thought out and shared. Just brilliant! Cheers 🙂

    Liked by 1 person

    1. breakthefog says:

      Thank you, my dear Leian. Let’s dazzle this world!
      Us, ladies, can do it!

      Liked by 1 person

  24. Isabellasouthwick says:

    Awesome piece!

    Southwick // http://www.iqsouthwick.com

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    1. breakthefog says:

      Thank you, dear lady!

      Like

  25. Millie says:

    Beautiful post Alina! Love all of the rules, especially no. 7 Give! It really is so fulfilling giving to other people and make you feel good too! X

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    1. breakthefog says:

      Thank you, dear Millie.
      We should all give as much as we can to others. A smile, a good word, a hug, don’t cost a thing! But it makes so much good to the ones in need.
      Share love!

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  26. Millie says:

    Beautiful post Alina! Love all of the rules, especially no.7 Give! It really is so fulfilling giving to other people and it make you feel really good too! X

    Liked by 1 person

    1. breakthefog says:

      Let’s give to this world a ray of light!!! We can do it together!!!

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  27. This was a really nice read. Great article.

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    1. breakthefog says:

      Thank you for the appreciation, dear Brittani.

      Like

  28. ajennysaved says:

    Lovely post, some great tips there

    Liked by 1 person

    1. breakthefog says:

      Thank you, dear lady!

      Liked by 1 person

  29. Cheyanne says:

    Beautiful list! I especially love #17! 🙂

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    1. breakthefog says:

      Dear Cheyanne, I am so glad to see that morals are the most important part of your journey!
      Being a lady is though, but as long as we keep our morals at least as high as our high heels, we can rule this life!
      Let’s make it!!!

      Like

  30. Amanda says:

    This was beautiful and beautifully written 🙂

    Liked by 1 person

    1. breakthefog says:

      Thank you, dear Amanda!
      Let’s rule this world!!!

      Like

    1. breakthefog says:

      Thank you, my dear Jennah! Bless you!!!

      Like

  31. Shawna says:

    I loved this post! “Be real, be bold, be YOU” – love that!

    Liked by 1 person

    1. breakthefog says:

      We are the worthiest gift of God!!! Being able to live as we feel, getting out of the labels and create our own destiny…. this is real life!!
      Let’s live…alive!!!

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      1. Shawna says:

        Perfectly stated!

        Liked by 1 person

  32. brittanidouglas says:

    This was a really great read. So uplifting.

    Liked by 1 person

    1. breakthefog says:

      So glad you’ve liked it, my dear lady!
      Bless you!

      Like

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