1. Walk like a feather, dance like the weather.
Have you ever noticed a feather falling down on the grown?!
So delicate, smooth, though strong.
Walk with grace, walk with confidence, walk with faith.
Dance barefoot, dance in the muddy waters of tears, dance in this ocean called life.
Don’t fight against it, learn how to surf!
2. Be that shoulder to cry on.
Who doesn’t recall how easy all the darkness disappeared when surrounded by mom’s tender arms?
Give a chance to people who never felt it, and be there for the needed ones.
3. Be real, be bold, be… YOU!
Be that woman who at the end of the day, doesn’t have to take out her mask.
Be that woman who at the end of the day, doesn’t have to cry out loud her misery of living others people life.
Be that woman who at the end of the day, embraces her reflection in the mirror.
4. Smile on top of those tears, knowing that tomorrow life will give you hundreds of reasons to wipe them out.
And what if you cry? And what if you lose? And what if you make mistakes?
Cry, laugh, dance on them and… let go!
5. Start loving… YOU! Don’t you know confidence is the new must have?
Grab that mirror, take a look at yourself and, start seeing who you really are.
You are a particle of God’s creation. What is not to love about you?!
6. Grow… love.
Love yourself, love others, love nature, love who you are, what you are, what you’ll become, what you feel, what you need, what you deserve.
By helping others, you help your heart.
The fulfillment of knowing that you could ease the pain from one’s life is infinite.
Take the time to feel it!
Appearance is important, but let’s decorate the room of cultural, emotional, spiritual development.
We wouldn’t like spider nests to invade us, right?
9. Keep your mouth shut, and your heart open.
And by this, I don’t mean that you should stop expressing yourself, your opinion and start to live in the shadow.
Oh, Hell, no!
A lady should always stand up, rise, shine, but make it with style and love, girl!
Respect who you are. Respect who and what others are.
We are not better than others. We are all just… human.
10. Stand out and keep up!
You are unique, no matter what.
You don’t need to look, speak, dress like the ones around you.
Just show who you really are and… allow yourself to shine!
Once you do it, keep on sprinkling glitter on your life!
Moment by moment, day by day, turn yourself into a “disco ball”(literally speaking 😉 )
Little sparkle here and there killed no one.
11. Keep your mind open.
What doesn’t call for elegance if not a lady who can respect others without insulting, shouting, judging, while still holding on her opinion?
12. Blink like you feel lazy.
Is nothing elegant about those eyelashes moving up and down like in a marathon race.
Take it easy, girl! 😉
This moment is yours, life is yours, so breathe into it!
The key to success is in your possession, so, why freak out?
Just… work on it!
14. Be sure to spread around you a subtle fragrance of grace, elegance, discretion.
Be a lady, not the tramp!
15. Know your fears, weaknesses.
Face them, embrace them, allow them to create a better version of a unique human being.
Boogie man comes only if we open the door.
If you have it as a Heartmate though, make some space for Tinkerbell as well.
She would love to bring in some light and create a cozy home out of darkness.
16. Don’t run away from hotness.
Elegance is sexy, as long as sexy is elegance!
17. Keep your standards high, and your morals even higher.
For sure you know what to expect from yourself, from life.
Don’t settle down for a so so version of you. Invest in what you were, are and want to become.
Invest, create, fight!
Life is not always easy, people and situations are not always fair.
They might make you suffer, try to break you down, but, my dear one, don’t give up on that priceless dignity!
Brainify your spirit, simplify your choices, glitterize your life!
What about you, girl?! What is your way of… being?!
© 2017 Dr. Alina- Loredana Marcu. All rights reserved.